Sexy State of Mind
Friday, November 20th, 2009
Sexy is truly a state of mind, Hero or zero
Sexy is not a profession, it is not a size. It is neither a skin colour nor hair type. It’s a swag. Sexy need not speak for it radiates from the eyes. It resides within the funk, deep within your soul.
It’s not the end result, it’s the initiator. You can’t buy it, wear it or surgically enhance it. It doesn’t age. You have to find sexy within yourself and own it. Swagger jack and people will be made out in a big way. You will not be considered sexy, you will be considered fake.
It is an unconditional love of self, a honest belief that you love yourselves and everything that comes along with it. Many times we are incensed by society when we feel that they do not accept us as ‘we are’. But how can we expect society to accept us when we aren’t even accepting of ourselves? A Sexy State of Mind subconsciously commands the world to stop and to pay attention. To appreciate. To love. To gravitate toward. No long talking.
It’s how you walk, how you talk. It’s how you view the person who looks back at you in the mirror. It’s where you put that person in the grand scheme of things. Is that person first or last? Is that person even on your list?
How can we attract good when all that we project is doubt and a vapid obsession with being someone else? How can we expect the world to take note of what we have to offer if we don’t demonstrate what it is, or even know what it looks like? Instead we only attract predators, for in this mindset we are nothing but wounded prey. We are so deprived of love within, just by osmosis, we absorb manufactured love wherever and however we can.
To achieve a sexy state of mind we have to be comfortable with who we are, where we are in life and understand where we are going. We must practice self love daily, give ourselves the benefit of the doubt and cut ourselves some slack. We must set our goals, work smartly to reach them, and enjoy the journey. Every year is our best year, because everyday we tell ourselves “I am the best me today”.
Let us stop focusing on our weaknesses. It gives them too much importance in our lives. It enables them to be part of our mental script, which only further debilitates us. There are other people with that strength, let them contribute that to the team. Weaknesses makes us nothing less than human.
Cause let’s be real; no matter how hard we work at our weaknesses, they are never going to be as strong as we wish them to be; they will never be our strengths. So let us focus on developing our strengths. Let our strengths shine. When we put enough focus on developing our strengths, no-one will know or even care about our weaknesses.
We can’t have a sexy state of mind if we are stuck in the waiting phase. Waiting on that promotion, waiting on the right time to step out that dead-end relationship, waiting until we lose those extra pounds to get our look together, waiting until something else comes along that will enable us to have another life. The “Waiting State of Mind’ doesn’t promote positivity. It doesn’t promote happiness. It doesn’t promote sexy.
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Be your own sexy self. Everyone else’s is already taken.
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girl you could not have said it better … the only downside is that when they see your sexy – and they dont have any of their own they spend the rest of their lives trying to take your sexy away from you… instead of using the energy to search/own their own sexy, there they are focusing on someone elses sexy..
sigh…
you keep sending the good vibes babe! i’ll be reading ….
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Supernova Reply:
November 21st, 2009 at 10:34 am
Maybe. But they would be robbing themselves, not you, as that would be an act of futility. No-one can take your Sexy State of Mind away from you, because it’s intangible. The only person who can do that is you, by paying them any mind.
Think about it, how blessed are you if someone else wants, and can’t get, that person that you have endured so much to become? Sounds like their personal challenge, not yours.
Consider yourself flattered, be thankful that you no longer have those issues and, like Uncle Johnny, Keep Walking.
Thanks for reading!
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