Relationships | When Love is Over
Tuesday, December 15th, 2009
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As we spoke to the fellas in a previous post, Dating | Me no speak Engrish, it’s only fair that we also address the ladies on the relationship tip.
Either through denial or, I don’t know, not being fully present in the relationship perhaps, women too, can tend not to see what’s clearly written on the relationship wall.
These are my top 5 signs that a man has left the relationship building.
1. You’re mad and he doesn’t give a damn
You’re fuming through the ears and frothing at the mouth and he makes absolutely no mention about it. As a matter of fact, you’re starting to think that he purposely does things to piss you to hell off because after 2 years of being together, you know that he knows better than to do, or say certain things, things that he’s expressed, at some point before in the relationship, that he knows upsets you.
2. He doesn’t see the benefit of counseling
If a guy wants something he will do whatever it takes to get it. No matter how silly his friends may think it is, or how much he dislikes it, if he’s interested in being with you, he will, at the very least, entertain the thought of saving the relationship.
So if you see that there’s clearly something wrong in the relationship and he doesn’t, well alrighty then, the both of you are already on different chapters, and quite possibly. of different books.
3. You never know where he is
All that you know is that he ain’t home. Ever.
His friends are already on the tip that he’s moving on out so not even they … um… ‘get creative’ about his whereabouts anymore. You call them and ask where he is and they say that they don’t know. Period. Everyone says they have no idea where he is, and apparently you are the only one who cares.
His working hours get longer, with no notice, explanation or call that even ‘something came up and I’m working late’ … ‘honey’ or no ‘honey’ attached.
You are just totally out of the loop.
4. He no longer uses a title to introduce you
You are no longer his ‘girl’ or his ‘wife’. If you even get introduced at all, you are now… well whatever your government name is. No elaboration, no introducing you to anyone else, no niceties. You are just you and end of discussion. Whatever you choose to do to occupy yourself throughout the rest of the event is really up to you.
You also no longer get invited out to corporate events, or anything that would require you two to look like a ‘couple’.
5. Facebook notifies you that he’s no longer with you
Because, as we all know, Facebook likes to break the bad news the easy way – by letting the entire world know what’s up before you do.
This is my humble opinion, but what do I know. Maybe the guys can help.
Are there any things that I’ve incorrectly identified or missed?
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Lets keep it together ladies.
You have a pretty good list here. I can’t argue with any of them. If your man is doing any of these..it’s basically a wrap.
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teehee.
Thanks TrueMan
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