
Denim is the Western society’s go-to casual look, but with the ridiculous amount of variations out there, it is pretty easy to mess this look up. We also grow out of denim looks, so you run the risk of sabotaging yourself if you do not see to updating your denim to match your Grown ‘n Sexy State of Mind.
We know things are rough money-wise, so no you don’t have to throw out your entire wardrobe. However, when next you decide to purchase a pair, here are some things to keep in mind.
1. Colour
The most flattering colours of denim are medium to dark shades.

DRESSY / DO
Full black denim can be harsh
You are better off wearing a trouser, if you are going for a dressy look, or black denim with shades of grey, not white, for a worn in look. ‘Light’ black shades can look washed out; In this case a better option would be a dark grey instead.
Just remember, lighter colours make an area look fuller so unless you have a few pounds to spare on your bottom half, stick to darker, more muted colours.
Faded jeans are super casual and are the least slimming.
The fewer distressing details denim has, the more dressy the look is.
That said, denim itself is a casual look and should not be used to replace a trouser, and no matter how dressy you think the look is, denim should be avoided for Casual Friday work wear.
Gentle distressing details give denim a warm, comfortable look and can indicate that you are a man who is approachable and easy going yet put together.
Strike a happy medium by going with gentle distressed details. Whiskers are for cats, so keep this look minimum – nothing that is more than a couple shades lighter than the bulk of the denim colour, works well.
Dress dark denim down with short-sleeved, light-weight shirts or button ups, and dress up with a blazer.
2. Cut

Straight styles/ DO
Denim should be fitted well.
The fabric itself is already bulky so do find your size. Fit. Fit. Fit.
‘Fit’ doesn’t mean tight by the way. By fit I mean, find your correct size. Denim stretches, and so choosing to wear denim even a size bigger than your natural size, can make you look sloppy.
At the same time, don’t choose something so tight that you cut your nature. It looks uncomfortable, and surely it must be. It’s a trendy look that some guys can definitely pull off, I will not lie, but Grown people wouldn’t take you or what you have to say seriously so avoid this look in professional or networking settings.
Straight cut styles are the most flattering.
Bootcut styles are not, unless you are wearing platform heeled shoes, as they would make you look shorter and curvier than you are. Unless these are the looks that you are going for, stay away.

Super Skinny DON'T
Flare, baggy, and wide legged male styles should just be outlawed already, right along with the high-rise, male versions of ‘mom jeans’. They don’t flatter anyone, unless one is trying to make a comedic statement.
Unless you’re in entertainment, super skinny jeans on males is not a good look. And unless you have hips, never wear female jeans. Jeans, like sneakers, are constructed differently for males and females for specific, anatomical reasons.
3. Style

- FADED DON’T
Regardless of colour, distressed denim is the most casual denim look.
Denim that is both distressed and faded is then both causal and trendy. Although there are situations where this denim combo can work, it should be left for the younger guys, guys who are just a little Grown.
No disrespect at all is meant here, by ‘little Grown’ I’m referring to guys in their their late twenties to early thirties, who can still get away with this look and not appear to be forcing the youth point. The further away you are from this age group, the more you should want to give the impression that you have your affairs in order.

- GROWN FADED DO
Try a fully faded look rather than partial fading
When choosing jeans in lighter shades, opt for ones without extra fading, and with no distressing, to bring a casual yet grown look. Pairing these types of jeans with lightweight, short-sleeved shirts or classic button up tees can help you balance the line between casual yet Grown swag. Pair with a sports jacket to achieve a dressier look, but remember that light coloured jeans will always be most casual.
4. Length
Male jeans should be long enough to have just about one or two crinkle folds in it when shoes are worn, see any of the above dos. If it falls fully flat by your feet when you stand then it’s too short; any more wrinkles and it’s too long.
Get your jeans tailored if necessary. As denim shrinks when laundered, ensure that you carry it to the tailor after laundering. If they originally came with a hem, you can request that the original hem be used.

- DRESSY / DO
Please, no denim capris.
It’s a very unflattering look as they cut you off abruptly and make you look shorter than you ought to be. If you wish to wear shorts, opt for Grown male, flat-front khakis instead, that cut at, or just below the knee. Leave above the knee for boarder shorts.
The colour is your personal choice, it’s the length, and cut that’s most important. The lighter the colour, or more patterned the fabric, the more casual it is.

CASUAL / DO
Avoid flashy back pockets.
Reserve the bling for understated jewelry like watches, perhaps a statement belt buckle (no rhinestone designs please), and your winning white-toothed smile.
The bulkier your frame. the less voluminous your pockets should be also, i.e. pocket flaps and expanded cargo-like pocket styles and what not. The more distracting details on the shorts the more casual it appears.
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5. No denim shirts. Period.
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It’s amazing how much the sofistication ante ups when you keep it simple.
Ladies feel free to weigh in on your pet peeves for men’s denim, guys feel free to agree to disagree.
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